When
you realize that what is going on INSIDE determines your happiness, you make
another important realisation...
Happiness is a choice that you can make.
Let me
say that again. Happiness is a choice you can make.
That
one realization has amazing power for two reasons:
Firstly, now YOU have the power
Before,
if your focus was looking for happiness OUTSIDE then the OUTSIDE had the power
to make you happy or not, it had the power to determine your experience. You
were at effect, it was being done to you, you were the victim... being blown
around like a leaf in the wind, at the mercy of the storm. And this takes its
toll. However adjusted you might be, if you look for happiness outside, deep
down in the background the overall sense of your experience is tainted by your
not being in control, your being a victim of circumstance.
But now
you have the power. You know you determine your experience. You know that
however it looks the OUTSIDE doesn't make you feel the way you do. And this one
realization, once taken on board, will singularly improve your overall
experience of life and happiness.
You
will be strong with the power, free from the effects of circumstance and the
burden of trying to change the world to make you happy! You will find it’s
easier to change yourself than it is to change the whole world!
Secondly, you can choose
By
becoming aware that what is going on INSIDE you determines your happiness, you
get to a position where you have choice, real choice to decide to improve your
life and be happier. You can take the control, step up to the plate, drive your
bus... it is your choice.
Happiness is a choice that you can make - a decision.
Make
the decision and this book will help you implement your new choices...
“Pleasure comes from outside us, happiness from within.”