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He that is good for making excuses is
seldom good for anything else.
There is a single reason why 99 out of 100
average businesspeople never become leaders. That is their unwillingness
to pay the price of responsibility. By the price of responsibility, I mean
hard driving, continual work . . . the courage to make decisions, to stand
the gaff . . . the scourging honesty of never fooling yourself about
yourself. You travel the road to leadership heavily laden. While the
nine-to-five-o'clock worker takes his ease, you are "toiling upward
through the night." Laboriously you extend your mental frontiers. Any
new effort, the psychologists say, wears a new groove in the brain. And
the grooves that lead to the heights are not made between nine and five.
They are burned in by midnight oil.
Success in life comes not from holding a
good hand of cards, but in playing a poor hand well.
FOR
MANY OF US, personal motivation is unfocused and diffused. When
motivation is not tied to a specific goal, it rapidly disintegrates into
inertia. But when motivation becomes focused on a single, well-defined
goal, it becomes a powerful force for success and achievement.
Think of motivation as steam. If released
into the open atmosphere, steam evaporates and disappears. If steam is
trapped in a room, it can make you feel uncomfortably sticky and hot. But
harness the steam to an engine, and it can pull a thousand-ton train.
It's the same with motivation. Motivation
can escape from you, evaporating into thin air, leaving you feeling
unenthusiastic and lethargic. Or motivation can be trapped inside, causing
you to be agitated and filled with frustration. But motivation harnessed
to a goal can get you to accomplish virtually anything you set your
thoughts on.
Motive is meaningless until it is combined
with action. That's why we call it motivation.
There is one word that blocks action, that
poisons motivation, that smothers any chance for success and happiness.
That killer word is can't.
So many individuals faced with a crisis or
an opportunity react negatively. The first thing that pops into their
minds and out of their mouths is "I can't."
"We need this report by
Thursday," the boss tells us.
"No way," we reply. "It
can't be done."
But life need not be lived that way. There
is another word, one of the most powerful words in the English language—can.
The gap between what people think they can
achieve and what is possible for them is actually very small.
"I can" cuts across all lines of
work and all endeavors within a chosen profession, whether your ultimate
goal is lifting enough weight to pass a firefighter's exam, closing a
sale, getting a promotion, earning a Ph.D., making a million dollars, or
landing a job in the first place.
"I can" is energizing. Say it to
yourself right now: I can. Did you feel a lift, a small surge of
well-being? Say it over and over, again and again, a hundred times a day.
You'll soon find your enthusiasm spilling over into everything you do at
work and at home.
There really are no good uses for the word
"can't." But think you can, believe you can, and you'll
find that you can indeed!
Good management is the art of showing
average people how to do the work of superior people.
LIVE
YOUR LIFE EACH DAY as you would climb a mountain. An occasional
glance toward the summit keeps the goal in mind, but many beautiful scenes
are to be observed from each new vantage point. Climb slowly, steadily,
enjoying each passing moment; and the view from the summit will serve as a
fitting climax for the journey.
A
MONARCH
OF LONG AGO had twin sons. There was some confusion about which one
was born first. As they grew to young manhood, the king sought a fair way
to designate one of them as crown prince. All who knew the young men
thought them equal in intelligence, wit, personal charm, health, and
physical strength. Being a keenly observant king, he thought he detected a
trait in one which was not shared by the other.
Calling them to his council chamber one
day, he said, "My sons, the day will come when one of you must
succeed me as king. The burdens of sovereignty are very heavy. To find out
which of you is better able to bear them cheerfully, I am sending you
together to a far corner of the kingdom. One of my advisors there will
place equal burdens on your shoulders. My crown will one day go to the one
who first returns bearing his burden like a king should."
In a spirit of friendly competition, the
brothers set out together. Soon they overtook an aged woman struggling
under a burden that seemed far too heavy for her frail body. One of the
boys suggested that they stop to help her. The other protested: "We
have a burden of our own to worry about. Let us be on our way."
The objector hurried on while the other
stayed behind to give aid to the aged woman. Along the road, from day to
day, he found others who also needed help. A blind man took him miles out
of his way, and a lame man slowed him to a cripple's walk.
Eventually he did reach his father's
advisor, where he secured his own burden and started home with it safely
on his shoulders. When he arrived at the palace, his brother met him at
the gate, and greeted him with dismay. He said, "I don't understand.
I told our father the burden was too heavy to carry. However did you do
it?"
The future king replied thoughtfully,
"I suppose when I helped others carry their burdens, I found the
strength to carry my own."
WE
DECEIVE OURSELVES when we fancy that only weakness needs support.
Strength needs it more. A straw or a feather sustains itself long in the
air.
To solve the human equation,
we need
to add love, subtract hate, multiply good, and divide between the truth
and error.
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