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THE
LONG SPAN of the bridge of your life is supported by countless
cables called habits, attitudes, and desires. What you do in your life
depends upon what you are and what you want. What you get from life
depends upon how much you want it—how much you are willing to work and
plan and cooperate and use your resources. The long span of the bridge of
your life is supported by countless cables that are spinning now, and that
is why today is such an important day. Make the cables strong.
MANY
OF life's failures are people who did not realize how close
they were to success when they gave up.
THE
ULTIMATE DEFENSE against growing old is your dream. Nothing is
as real as a dream. Your dream is the path between the person you are and
the person you hope to become. Success isn’t money. Success isn’t
power. The criteria for your success are to be found in your dream, in
your self. Your dream is something to hold on to. It will always be your
link with the person you are today, young and full of hope. If you hold on
to it, you may grow old, but you will never be old, and that is the
ultimate success.
WE
ALL sometimes get too serious about our workloads and our
business problems. Rather than worry and analyze too much, I prefer to
remember that line from Thornton Wilder’s
Skin of Our Teeth My
advice to you is not to inquire why or whither, but just enjoy your ice
cream while it’s on your plate."
NOTHING
IS OURS outright, as a gift; we have to perform for ourselves
even those of our actions which seem most passive. The humble Sancho Panza
kept suggesting this proverb: "If they give you a cow, you have to
carry the rope." All we are given is possibilities to make
ourselves one thing or another.
We’ve all used the phrase, one of
these days.
One of these days we’re going write a
book.
One of these days we’re going to act on
that great idea.
One of these days we’re going to look up
that old friend.
It’s a familiar phrase, but invariably, one
of these days means none of these days.
We’re talking about a malady called procrastination.
Its a sickness that’ the same all over the world.
We keep telling ourselves that we’re
going to do something and instead of doing it we spend a lot of time
thinking about reasons why we can’t.
We wait for conditions to be ideal. We have
to catch up on all our regular work. The decks have to be cleared for
action.
We put off starting a task because it’s
difficult. Take writing, for instance. It’s not easy to fill a blank
page with good writing. The late, great sports writer, Red Smith, said,
"You just put a blank piece of paper in the typewriter and stare at
it until drops of blood appear on your forehead."
If we do make a start at something,
we decide the task is too big or too time-consuming.
We convince ourselves that time is not
important. We can push back our deadline without creating any problems.
There’s always tomorrow.
The ironic thing about all this is that the
amount of energy we use to dodge a job is sometimes greater than the
energy required to complete it. As we continue to procrastinate, a sense
of guilt is created and it hangs like a cloud overhead, taking the joy out
of our everyday tasks.
One way to get off this merry-go-round
that’s going nowhere is to sit down and make two lists. On one side of a
piece of paper, list all the reasons why you are procrastinating about a
particular task. Then on the other side list the benefits that could be
gained by getting the task done.
You’ll find that your reasons for
postponing action are weak and that the list of benefits is longer and
stronger. The effect can be dramatic. You’ll get off this slow-motion
merry-go-round you’ve been on and strike out in a direction that will
bring you the benefits you’ve listed. Even if you only spend five
minutes the first day taking that first step toward getting the task done
and achieving your benefits, do it. Begin. Otherwise, you’ll spend the
first half of your life postponing things and the second half regretting
that you did.
STILL I am
learning.
WE
MUST take care to live not merely a long life, but a full one;
for living a long life requires only good fortune, but living a full life
requires character. Long is the life that is fully lived; it is fulfilled
only when the mind supplies its own good qualities and empowers itself
from within.
I
BELIEVE
most people place an undue emphasis on talent. I don’t doubt that it
exists, but talent is essentially a potential for something. The issue
really is not talent as an independent element, but talent in relationship
to will, desire, and persistence. Talent without those things vanishes and
even modest talent with those characteristics grows.
FOR
ONCE you have tasted flight you will walk the earth with your
eyes turned skyward, for there you have been and there you long to return.
THE
ROAD TO happiness lies in two simple principles: find what it
is that interests you and that you can do well, and when you find it, put
your whole soul into it every bit of energy and ambition and natural
ability you have.
YOU'LL
NEVER leave where you are, until you decide where you’d
rather be.
A
LITTLE
BOY AND GIRL wanted to meet
the wisest man in the world. When they found him, they said, Sir, we
understand you are one of the wisest men in the world. We want to be like
you when we grow up. How can we do that?
The man responded with these words of
wisdom: Children, there are four words I would like to say to you. When
you grow up, you will be very wise if you remember these words and live by
them.
The first word is Think. Think about the
values and principles that are important to you.
The second word is Believe. Believe in
yourself based on the thinking you have done.
The third word is Dream. Dream about
what you want to become, based on your belief in yourself.
And the last word is Dare. Dare to make
your dream a reality.
Then, in front of Sleeping Beauty’s
castle by Snow White’s wishing well, Walt Disney said to the boy and
girl, Let me say those four words again, so you can remember them:
Think, Believe, Dream, and Dare.
THERE
SHOULD BE less talk; a preaching point is not a meeting point.
What do you do then? Take a broom and clean someone’s house. That says
enough.
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