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IN
MY STUDY
of achievers, I
found that the difference between the great and the mediocre is one thing: the
willingness to make a decision. If you think you've made a decision to build a
great business and nothing is happening, then you did not make a decision. You indulged in a fantasy because action is inherent in any real decision.
JUST
DON'T give up trying to do what you really want to do. Where
there's love and inspiration, I don't think you can go wrong.
DO
WHAT YOU CAN, with what you have, where you are.
FIND
SOMETHING you love to do, and you'll never have to work a day in your
life.
YOU'LL
break the worry habit the day you decide you can meet and master the worst that
can happen to you.
TO
BE what we are, and to become what we are capable of becoming, is the
only end of life.
WE
CAN DO anything we want if we stick to it long enough.
I
BELIEVE that if you think about disaster, you will get it. Brood
about death and hasten your demise. Think positively and masterfully, with
confidence and faith, and life becomes more secure, more fraught with action,
richer in achievement and experience.
SOME
PEOPLE are always grateful for the roses, while others always grumble
at the thorns.
MAY
WE NEVER let the things we can’t have, or don’t have, or
shouldn’t have, spoil our enjoyment of the things we do have and can have. As
we value our happiness let us not forget it, for one of the greatest lessons in
life is learning to be happy without the things we cannot or should not have.
LIFE
IS NOT EASY for any of us. But
what of that? We must have perseverance and above all confidence in ourselves.
We must believe that we are gifted for something, and that this thing, at
whatever cost, must be attained.
THINK
EXCITEMENT, talk excitement, act out excitement and you are bound to
become an excited person. Life will take on a new zest, deeper interest, and
greater meaning.
THERE
IS no such thing as can’t and
won’t. If you’re qualified, all it
takes is a burning desire to accomplish, to make a change. Go forward, go
backward. Whatever it takes! But you can’t blame other people or society in
general. It all comes from your mind. When we do the impossible we realize we
are special people.
THE GREATEST TEST
DO
YOU know what the greatest test
is? Do you still get excited about what you do when you get up in the morning?
YOU
DO NOT merely want to be considered just the best of the best. You
want to be considered the only one who does what you do.
MANY
OF US do not realize what we believe when we look in the mirror. Many
of us do not see our own image but someone else’s image that we feel we must
please, thinking it might be of value. But there is no value or glory playing
second fiddle to someone else. You cannot live your life with someone else’s
image. It means self-destruction; you become your worst enemy.
You are your worst enemy when you want to be perfect. You become fearful of
making a mistake, so you don’t assert yourself; therefore you cannot achieve
happiness in life. You cannot gain friendship that way or in any negative way
where you symbolically walk around on your knees trying to get attention by
trying to please everybody.
Friendship begins with you; you can’t be a friend to others unless you are a
friend to yourself. What is equally important is that you can’t be a friend to
everybody. We all see things differently. That is the way it should be; and
because of that, it is inevitable that we will make enemies with people who
violently disagree with us. If we firmly and honestly feel that our cause is
right, we should not be afraid of making enemies but should try to maintain
harmony.
There is an old Chinese proverb that says, "Just as tall trees are known by
their shadows, so are good men known by their enemies." By far you are your
worst enemy either when through fear and indecision you live to please someone
else, or when you refuse to live at all because you are fearful of making a
mistake.
YOU
CAN'T hit a home run unless you step up to the plate. You can’t
catch fish unless you put your line in the water. You can’t reach goals if you
don’t try.
LIFE'S
under no obligation to give us what we expect.
1. Be sure of your final destination, in
case you are going the wrong way.
2. Be loving to those who love you.
3. Be loving to those who do not love you, and they may change.
4. Above all, be yourself.
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